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When life is not PEACHY….. Hang on a minute and think, what’s wrong !!!!!

We Are Together In This….!!!!

Today is the day I gathered the courage to sit down to write something, although I am flooded with thoughts. There are lot many incidents running through my mind , stories about how much life could hurt you mentally, emotionally & physically sometimes.

Different people have different approach towards same aspect. That’s what we call thought process. So we need to discover our voice. 

Sometimes I think why me?

I went to a post shop today for some office work , and I saw a note pad there, which says “Don’t Quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion- Muhammad Ali.” That quote just caught my eye and I bought that note pad within a second.

The problem is, when something bad happens to us in life we actually starts focusing on the negatives instead of the positives around us. Which somehow drains our energy and we feel tired, imbalanced, and annoyed.

There is no such invisible crown you need to wear and lift your chin up in life, the real crown would be the STRENGTH which you would gathered to FIGHT BACK!

When tolerance crosses the limit, Intolerance becomes Dharma (Religion).

A fear remains the same unless you conquer it. The fear inside us doesn’t allow us to embrace our surroundings. We ignore the loudness of our inner storm while listening to the noise around. we do get afraid to hear our own voice. We usually ignore self talks. Because it feels like dragging all the past memories which we believe we have overcome by the passage of time.

Although future is uncertain, but I am anxious about every single second of my life. The past few years made me vulnerable. I needed somebody to hold my hand and tell me
“This too shall pass”.

Let’s discover ourselves and make life a bit more peachy.

Everything was going out of my hands. I was afraid….. I was anxious…… I was surrounded by negativity. I couldn’t move my body, it was stiff. My body showed me all signs of panic. But I knew I was never born to be like this, I Stood up and grab my notepad with pen and went to the park. It was a gorgeous afternoon. the sun was very bright. I could feel the breeze on my face. It was absolutely soothing. I put my headphones on and played a relaxing music & just started writing about my surrounding. I pen down almost all the visuals happening around me.It felt so good to distract myself for a moment from the dark side of my life and smile for no reason.

Indeed life was peachy for few moments. I got my clue.

Before the Future, I Had to Understand the Past

Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?

I realise that I spend more time thinking about the past than the future—not because I’m stuck there, but because I’m trying to understand myself.

The past holds unanswered questions, emotions that were never fully expressed, and experiences that shaped who I am today. I revisit it to find meaning, to heal, and to make sense of why certain things affected me so deeply. For me, reflection is not weakness; it’s a way of processing life.

The future often feels uncertain, and uncertainty demands a kind of confidence and safety that I am still learning to build. So my mind returns to what it already knows. Once I feel emotionally settled, my thoughts slowly shift from what happened to what I want next.

I know this phase is not permanent. Understanding my past is simply preparing me to create a future that feels calmer, more intentional, and truly mine.

My memories are not just events—they are emotions, pauses, silences, and moments where I had to become stronger than I was ready to be. I revisit them to understand why I reacted the way I did, why certain experiences left a deeper mark, and how they shaped the person I am today. Looking back helps me connect the dots between who I was, who I became, and who I am still becoming.

The future, in contrast, feels open yet uncertain. It asks for clarity, confidence, and trust—things that are built slowly, especially when life has taught you to be cautious. I don’t avoid the future; I approach it gently. I know that imagining it requires emotional safety, and I am still learning how to create that space within myself.

Thinking about the past is also my way of healing. There were moments when I didn’t get closure, when emotions were swallowed instead of expressed, and when strength was expected but support was missing. Reflection allows me to give myself the understanding I didn’t always receive from others.

Yet, this doesn’t mean I am stuck. I can feel the shift happening. Slowly, my questions are changing—from “Why did this happen to me?” to “What kind of life do I want to build now?” The more peace I make with my past, the more room I create for intention, calm, and direction.

I believe this phase is necessary. Before moving forward with clarity, I need to move inward with honesty. And when I do step fully into the future, it won’t be from fear or confusion—it will be from awareness, strength, and self-respect.

This is not dwelling.

This is understanding.

And understanding, for me, is the beginning of growth. 🌱